Wednesday, July 20, 2011

ABABO

In the West, you often hear people say things like “Well, I’m a Gemini so, it’s like I’m two people!” (Which I guess means that they suffer from multiple personalities.) In Korea, zodiac signs aren’t really used. Instead, blood types are used.

The idea is pretty similar to the zodiac. Blood types are supposed to govern your personality. Also, certain blood types combinations do better in a relationship than other combinations.

Take a look for yourself and see if your blood type matches your personality.

Blood Type A
Positive Traits: Conservative, introverted, reserved, patient, punctual and inclined to be perfectionists.
Worst Traits: Obsessive, stubborn, self conscious and uptight.

Referred as ‘farmers’ in some descriptions, Type A’s are said to be considerate of others and loyal to a fault. They can also be secretive and reluctant to share their feelings. Apparently they don’t hold their liquor well, either.


While outwardly calm, they have such high standards (perfectionists) that they tend to be balls of nerves on the inside. Type A’s are the most artistic of the blood groups. They can be shy, are conscientious, trustworthy, and sensitive.


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Blood Type B
Best Traits: Animal-loving, creative, flexible, individualistic, optimistic and passionate.
Worst Traits: Forgetful, irresponsible and self-centered.

Referred to as ‘hunters’, Type B’s have very independent natures and tend not to be concerned about what other people think of them. Although often described as shallow and lazy, they can be quite passionate about the things they hold dear. Patience is not their strong suit either.


Type B men have acquired a very negative reputation in Korea and are not considered by many to be good husband material. Often described as ‘players’, they are perceived as being selfish and mercurial, quick to anger and not terribly reliable. That said, their bad boy image makes them very attractive to women, but not for the long term. (Type B women do not share in this bad rep, for some unexplained reason).


Goal oriented and strong minded, type B’s will start a task and continue it until completed, and completed well. Type B’s are the individualists of the blood group categories and find their own way in life.

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Blood Type AB
Best Traits: Cool, controlled, empathic, introverted and rational.
Worst Traits: Aloof, critical, indecisive and unforgiving.

Referred to as ‘humanists’, Type AB’s are said to be controlled more by their heads, than by their hearts. They are rational, good with money, but unpredictable. Although inclined to be distant, they prefer harmony and as such, work well with mediators. Some consider them two-faced, and therefore untrustworthy.


Type AB’s are the split personalities of the blood groups. They can be both outgoing and shy, confident and timid. While responsible, too much responsibility will cause a problem. They are trustworthy and like to help others.

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Blood Type O
Best Traits: Ambitious, athletic, robust and self-confident.
Worst Traits: Arrogant, insensitive, ruthless and vain.

Referred to as ‘warriors’, Type O’s are viewed as natural leaders and are often, also, natural athletes. They tend to be outgoing, expressive and passionate, but can also bore others to death with their obsessive drive for success coupled with their absolute convictions that they are winners. This certainty that they will always win explains why they aren’t afraid to take risks or gamble. They have a strong physical presence and are unlikely to ever be overlooked.


Type O’s are outgoing, and very social. They are initiators, although they don’t always finish what they start. Creative and popular, they love to be the center of attention and appear very self confident.

(From TheKoreaGuide.com)

So, baby, what’s your blood type?

Friday, July 15, 2011

The Eye of the Beholder

Female beauty in Korea is a topic that is on everyone’s mind. Here, people believe that no one ugly ever did anything good and no one beautiful ever did anything bad. This is reflected in the way women dress, all the time. It’s not unusual to see a mom in heels, full hair and makeup, and a party dress at the grocery store, with the baby, at 11am on a Tuesday. Even if you do see a mom in sweats, those are expensive, coordinated sweats and the hair and the makeup are impeccable. Plus, she’s probably wearing heels.

That said, the Korean standard of female beauty is a little odd by Western standards. Some of it is the same. But, some of it is a little strange to us.

The biggest thing that a Korean woman is judged by is her body. This is right in line with the Western standard of beauty. However, the preferred body structure is a little different. Korean women, ideally, would like to be about 5’3” to 5’6” and very slim. Koreans like a level of slenderness that is nearly impossible for any non Asian woman to achieve. It is a slenderness that is pretty much a combination of both genetics and diet. It’s hard to be that thin and not have the genetic predisposition towards incredibly tiny bones and absolutely no muscle. Basically, the ideal body structure is that of a 14 year old girl or a short runway model. Things like implants are pretty much unheard of in Korea. They do plastic surgery like liposuction and calf muscle shaving for skinnier legs.

The next biggest thing that Korean women are judged by is their skin tone. Koreans like pale skin. In this aspect, Koreans are very different from Americans. In the US, tan skin is worshipped. Americans spend billions on spray tans, tanning beds, bronzers, etc. Koreans find this hilarious! I’ve mentioned American tanning habits to Koreans and their response is always something like “People pay to get tan? But, the sun is free! Why are they spending money on this?” Koreans actually do the opposite. They spend their money on sunscreen, skin whiteners, and parasols.

I like the Korean preference for fair skin. At home, in South Florida, I get a lot of comments about my skin – none of them complimentary. In Korea, people like my skin tone. In fact, the ladies at HomePlus (like a Super Target) go out of their way to help me maintain my pasty pallor. In the spring, when I was shopping for sunscreen, I was at HomePlus trying to read the labels on sunscreen. As I was looking at a bottle of SPF 30, a clerk approached me. She didn’t say a word. She just took that bottle of SPF 30 out of my hand and put it back on the shelf. Next, she took a bottle of SPF 50 from the shelf and put it in my hand. She then gave me a satisfied smile, bowed, and walked away.

The HomePlus ladies also try to sell me whitening creams and lotions. I once even had a student ask me what whitening cream I use. Apparently, the school sent out emails to the parents with a picture of their child’s teacher and a short bio. The little girl’s mom liked my coloring and wanted to know which products I use. (For the record, I just use a parasol and sunscreen. I don’t use the whitening creams.)

The last thing a Korean woman is judged by is her face. The Koreans have sort of a strange facial preference. They like the V Line. A V Line is, basically, a heart shaped face. It’s someone with a wide forehead and a pointy chin. Think of Reese Whitherspoon. Koreans spend a lot of money on plastic surgery to make their jaws and chins fit the V shape. I’ve never heard so many comments on face shape in my life.

This preference also leads to strange pictures. Korean girls love to take pictures either making a kissy face or with their hands on their cheeks. They believe that this makes their chins look pointier.

Another aspect of Korean beauty is the size of the face. Koreans like a small face. It’s actually a little strange to hear things like “Teacher, you have a very small face!” At first, I thought the kid was making fun of me, like when I would tell my brothers that they have big heads. No, it turns out that the kid was giving me a compliment. She likes my small face.

Koreans, like Westerners, prefer big, round eyes. I find this a little odd because, naturally, this isn’t what most Koreans have. I guess people just always want what is rare and different. A huge percentage of Koreans (male and female) get surgery done to their eyes. The most popular is eyelid surgery to get a double eyelid.

A double eyelid is something that pretty much every non East Asian person is born with. Apparently, I’ve had one my whole life and didn’t even know it. Only about 15% to 20% of East Asians have it. Basically, a double eyelid is this extra little crease in our lid area, right about the lashline. It’s only visible at certain angles but, Koreans go crazy for it. They feel that having this little extra crease enhances the eye. Personally, I can’t really tell. I can tell when someone has had their eyes made larger (through a creepy incision at the corner of the eye) but, I can’t spot the double eyelid despite the fact that I have one. To me, it makes no difference. But, it’s a hugely popular plastic surgery here.

Another aspect of the face that Koreans like to reshape is the nose. Koreans like a “high nose.” I’m not exactly sure what this means. I do know that Korean women spend a lot of money on surgeries to get the bridge of the nose made more prominent. In the US, people don’t usually pay to get larger noses so, this preference is a little different than Western ideals.

The overall effect of these surgeries is a little jarring. The women who really go all out end up looking sorta like half Asian Stepford wives. They are pretty but, in a strange way. The larger eyes and bigger nose make them look more Western but, they still kinda look Asian too. It’s confusing.

Now, what does this mean for foreigners? Well, not a whole lot. Basically, if you’re considered attractive in your home country, you’ll probably be considered attractive here too. You’ll just be considered a little fatter here than at home.



Before and After the Double Eyelid Surgery

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A Double Eyelid Kit

It has tape and an applicator to create a temporary double eyelid.

(Edit: People have pointed out that this particular kit is from Japan. I knew that. The writing on the package is Japanese, not Korean. I have seen double eyelid tape in Korea. I just couldn't find a pic online. I feel weird taking pics of double eyelid tape at a store or buying the tape to take pics of at home. )

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Applying the eyelid tape

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A Korean singer and the surgeries she is rumored to have had.

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Miss Korea 2006: Before and After

(Edit: It has been pointed out this is not the same person. I don't know if this is true or not. I stole the graphic from another website. )

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Edit: Many people have complained that the eyelid tape I had was from Japan. Well, here is eyelid tape from Korea. I'm not sure what this really changes but, it has hangul on it.

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Confession

I think it’s time for me to make a confession. My mom’s just going to out me when she gets home so, I might as well do it. Here goes:

I, Jen Small, walk around Korea carrying a parasol. I know what you’re thinking. No, I don’t also dress like this:

or this:

I just wear my normal clothes and carry a parasol. It’s really not that odd. Lots of women in Korea use them. Since my parasol folds up to a very small and portable size, it’s actually a very practical item. Sunscreen is expensive here and it’s sticky and sorta medicinal smelling. Also, the population is generally fair skinned. Plus, most Koreans live in big cities where they walk a lot and use public transportation rather than drive. So, with all of these factors, a parasol is a practical way to protect yourself from the sun while walking around the city. I still use sunscreen but, if I’m just walking to work or doing something else quickly, I will use my parasol as sun protection.

I know you may have a few questions so, I will attempt to anticipate and answer them.

  • Yes, I will be taking my parasol back to the US with me. So, you will all get a chance to see it. Plus, I plan on continuing to use it in the US.
  • Yes, many Korean women do use parasols.
  • No, I am the only foreigner that I have seen with a parasol.
  • Yes, Korean women do give me approving smiles when they realize that I am a foreigner carrying a parasol.
  • Yes, I do win a ton of brownie points with the ajummas for carrying a parasol.
  • Yes, parasols are inexpensive and easy to find in Korea.
  • Yes, other foreigners do mock me for carrying a parasol. I get called “Scarlett” a lot. (They’re just jealous because I won’t get wrinkles from sun damage.)
  • No, umbrellas and parasols are not the same thing. My parasol is made of fabric not umbrella material. It is not water-resistant in any way.

Ok, now that I have that off my chest, I feel totally free to continue my parasol use back in the Western world.


A Korean lady with a parasol.
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A picture of me from the back with my parasol. I'm on the right. I have pointed out two other parasol users in the picture.
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Saturday, July 2, 2011

Pics from Jeju

My mom and I took a now infamous trip to Jeju Island this past week. The trip is infamous because, apparently, a bit of a rumor started that we died during Typhoon Meari. I'm here to tell you that we did not die, drown, or get washed away in a flood. We did, however, get rained on several times and we had to walk around with umbrellas in our purses. It was actually a blessing that there was so much rain. The lingering effects of the typhoon kept the weather very overcast thus preventing me from getting seriously sunburned. Also, I think that it helped to keep the warm weather in check.

For those of you who are unfamiliar with the geography of South Korea, here is a map. I highlighted Jeju Island.

Here are some pictures from our trip.

Here is my mom in the medical center at Gimhae Airport, Busan's airport. My mom forgot her blood pressure medicine in Daejeon so, she had the nurse check her blood pressure.

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The ocean from really far away. I was standing on a bridge when I took this. The ocean is in the background.

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A river by our hotel



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The resort area we were staying at was on a cliff. The beach was at the bottom of the cliff. So, we had to climb down a series of stairs to get down the cliff to the beach.

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The view from the staircase.

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A tunnel on the staircase to the beach.

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The beach




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Cheonjeyeon Waterfall

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A show at the Africa Museum.
My mom and I kinda wondered if these people were really African or just black English teachers that were recruited to star in the show.

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